Can you Love... Again?

There's no real reason to run from it. We all need to feel, share and give love. There are so many broken hearts that fall and break, that it puts a damper on wanting to involve your heart again. I think the real reason people are afraid is because they focus too much on the bad things than they do the positive things.

Sometimes we just need to change our focus. Focus on all the great things and you wont worry about the bad.

Just a thought

90's Music

Remember when music was simple. When it was okay to sing about Love and how simple it could be? A friend of mine posted these on Facebook so I decided to share them with you. Hope you enjoy them as much as I did.








Thank you Pariss El. I can't end this without sharing something of yours.

The Beginning: Pretty Great Huh?

The beginning is where it all starts.  (Well DUH right?) Its when it all seems perfect. Well this is because this is the moment you know nothing but what you've seen thus far. You're Flirting, telling jokes, and just having a good time. In the beginning you give each so much attention that it just fees good to know that someone has interest in you. After all, its been so long since anyone wanted to get to know you the way this person has been trying. Small talks turn into long talks. You've never thought something so simple can make you feel so good.

First text to that first phone call... to the first time you're hanging out.
When you think its nothing but it feels like something. Then its that moment you realized that "this something" is starting to feel great. Because these "Good morning honey" text messages are just some of the things that make you smile. Or when he moves that strand of hair behind your ears and remind you of how beautiful you are... As great as it feels, you eventually have to realize that the only way to progress is knowing that the other person feels the same.

Dear Someone New, I'm Always Thinking Of You!

Dear Someone New,

The past few months have taken me by surprise. I know I’m great at saying I’m not ready for anything serious. Sometimes I’m even great at showing it. I really don’t want it to seem like I’ve changed my mind overnight. I want to tell you that I’m ready to take a chance, but I don’t want to push you away.  I thought I wasn’t ready to open up but truth is, you’ve had me since our first conversation. I must admit that I’m amazed at our unlimited conversation topics. Sometimes it hard to believe that we have a lot in common.

-Hope you feel the way I do.

 

Have you ever felt this way? Like you’ve just had a reality check. Realizing that as much as you say  that you may not want a relationship, is as much as you want it? You never really realize it until you find yourself smiling with every text message or a random thought. Or get this… randomly END UP TALKING ABOUT THIS PERSON!  Key sign that says your heart has let someone in.

Hanging

Things are always good in the beginning. It seems like you have so much in common. You have moments where it feels or seems so obvious that you both are on the same page... you have so much in common...and then... the deal breaker. You know that moment where something is said and you're left wondering...WHAT WENT WRONG? Did I miss something? I thought it was going so well. It could have been going so well. And you could have so much in common, but lack of communication can leave you hanging.

Don't get left hanging. Find someone that's willing to communicate with you.
An open heart & mind also needs open communication.