The Challenge: Mind over matter

I thought I'd give it all I have this year. Love that is. Then something happened. I started this emotional phase and I lost track of my priorities. Does this ever happen to you?  Everyone around is either with someone, getting engaged or married. Sometimes you feel like you're the only one. The Single Friend! Let me tell you that you are not alone. Nothing wrong with being human and wanting to feel and be loved. The moment you lose track of your priorities by paying too much attention to what is going on around you...  you stumble a little. And that's okay.
 Never fear though!  Just keep on stepping. Get back on track of doing things as you should. And guess what!  It will all fall into place.

The Signs

Do you know the signs? I'm still learning some, but here are a few to remember. I know sometimes we (women) tend to ignore the signs because everything is going well. He Its always perfect in the beginning.  Its like the honeymoon phase. You know the part before you hear the other person fart. Or that period of time before you are comfortable to full relieve yourself in his restroom. (Hey we are human too)

Here are some key words:

I'm too good for you.
Translation: I'm not ready for what you want. You would be great for someone who is.

I dont want to hurt you
Translation: I'm still doing my thing. There's someone else that I'd rather give more of my time to.

I'm spending N.Y.E with who I plan to spend my year with.
Translation: I wont be with you NYE because I dont plan on being with you in the new year.

There I've said it! Listen to him. If you have questions, ask him!

Just dont fall for the bull$h!t that sounds all sweet and special.

Happy New Year: 2013

Happy New Year Everyone! 2012 is officially over. Now is the time to get your new year resolutions together if you haven't already.

This year I've decided not to have any resolutions. I'm working on life changes that will hopefully effect my life in a positive way. I will continue to work on my goals (still writing and separating those). Goals should always be reevaluated and changed as your priorities in life change.

Current things I am working on: writing, jewelry making, and a new project in the works.
I will continue to work on myself and my writing. I love to write poetry, short stories (Hot on my to do list), blogs (duh of course) and other sorts of copy.
I make jewelry and I will continue projects as needed.
I also have a new project in the work. This will be a make it or break it situation and I hope that this is the one that will work its way into a full time career. Wish me luck!

Oh! Let's not forget love! This is the year I'm 100% open and giving my all to love. I have been extremely patient and hoping that my heart will chose wisely.  I pray that my next choice will be my last choice.

Happy New Year Everyone! May your 2013 be filled with life, love and happiness.