The beginning of Perfection?

Relationships take time to develop. No really. I get it through. We all want love. AND we want to show the world! Sometimes we forget that… “Love doesn’t boast”. A person who wants to be in love can fall fast. Falling fast can leave to heartbreak, fast. Of course heartbreak is not what we are looking for here. We want happiness, giggles, roses, candlelit dinner, and touching moment. Seriously though… happy healthy relationships will also have their downs.

Let me cut to the chase. The beginning will always be smiles & giggles. Don't forget that no one is perfect. I think that once we see that little bit of imperfections in a person... it gets hurtful. Sometimes we are not hurt intentionally, but that’s why you should take your time, get to know each other. Learning all that you can. Learn the good, bad & annoying before you decide to move forward. When you move forward…move forward together... Don't assume you're in a relationship if you both haven't agreed. When we really want love and companionship we really push forward.

Goal here is:

Don’t force anything.  Always remember: What is meant to be will be.

Valentine's Day: Every day

Every day is Valentine's when you're in love or just love your friends, family and those you spend the most time with. Don't wait until tomorrow to show someone how much you care for them. Dont wait until Valentine's day to show your appreciation.  Don't forget because you're too busy! Share love to your love ones every day.  Tomorrow is not promised. Appreciate today and stop waiting for what may not be here tomorrow.

Have a wonderful day folks!

Learning a lesson

Learn to deal with folks accordingly. Friends are genuinely happy for you. Frenemies don't know how to be happy for you.

Your path, happiness, Its there

The moment you stop seeking acceptance from other is the moment you find yourself. Your true self. Your wants & needs are not the same. Your journey is not the same as other. So stop seeking what makes others happy. Seek ye first the kingdom and know your path will lead to your own true happiness.

Love is Blind

Someone told me that you never stop giving up on the person you love. My thoughts are... What if that person loves someone else?

I've learned to deal with this thing called self torture long enough. That last phone call may have been hurtful. That last text message may have been hurtful.  Not angry hurtful but truthful hurtful.

You may think...  oh I'll just:

• Delete your number
• Delete all our text messages
• block you from facebook
• Delete all convos
• Just so I wont have to reference you at all.

Trust me this all sounds great. When you fall in love. When you find that happy place that keeps you coming back. That special part of someone that makes you feel like you can dust off the negativity and keep pushing. 

YOU HOLD ON! HOLD ON TIGHT!

See, it may be true that they love someone else but trust that they are not receiving the love that you give. Not from that other person.  This is why love is blind. We tend to mix up your wants/ needs between the heart and the mind.