Change: It's possible

The problem with change is that its comfortable to continue with previous patterns (ways of life). It's always easy continue with your norm but you must be willing to step out the box and the explore new possibilities.

Pay attention to your actions.
Be honest with yourself.
When you realize that you are reverting back... FIX IT!
Change is possible.
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Thinking out loud: The heart

The heart is a terrible thing to play it. The older I get the more I realized all the things my heart desires. The more I feed into physical desires the more I am hurt.

Never fear, there will always be something to learn during this process.

This is me thinking out loud.

Selena Gomez: The Heart Wants What it Wants

Making Space for the New

It's the second week of 2015. It's been such a busy week. I don't know about you but my Christmas tree is still up! I've finally taken off the lights and ornaments. If you haven't cleaned house well let this weekend be the time to get it done. Label your piles with donate and trash. This time remember to toss and donate these items. I have the tendency to just put stuff back because I'm either too busy or just too lazy. However, in 2015, I am choosing to NOT become a hoarder. 

Let's face it... We all have baggage. How we handle our baggage will determine space available for new experiences. Oh you thought I meant "clean house" in the literal sense? Well unless you have OCD, because... Well... Then that's another subject. 

You will only have one mental pile. Accept and let go. 

Goodbye fooled heart

I gave it all for love last year but nothing ever came from it. I found myself in an empty space giving. Don't get me wrong, Love is about giving. Everything I gave was returned but nothing grew from it. I realize why so many women are easily hurt. We focused on the feeling we wanted and not whole situation.

A man can make you feel like he loves you. He can hold your hand, tell you that you're beautiful and make you feel on top of the world. He can even tell you that he loves you back but you may not be what he wants. And we stick around ladies because the temporary cloud nine feeling feels good. That's great and all but what about reciprocation? It feels like he loves you back... But is that enough? No but we settle for being high in the clouds.

Here we are January 2, 2015. Two days into the new year. You have the option to keep settling or open your heart to something real. Remove yourself from your comfort zone. 

Open up to new experiences. The new year is the time to be ready for all that you've been hoping. 

Love is waiting but not while you're still doing the same old things. 

C'est la vie 2014

2014 is officially a memory. 

Happy New Year my friends! It's 2015! 10 years ago I had plan for my life to be different from now. You... Married, with a couple children. Visiting  2-3 counties a year. Showing my children life abroad. Let's just I have one handsome son and travel plans have just surfaced my horizon. 

For me 2014 was another year of learning to appreciate the little things in life. That's exactly what we should do in life, right? 

The started with a relationship and it all faded away by the end of the first quarter. The more we discussed our relationship, the more distant we became. 

I learned that sometimes people have issues within theirselves and tend to take it out on others.   Friends are friends no matter what but when people walk out of your life, let them go. As long as you know that you did your best to be a good friend. Nothing else matters.

Developed a close friendship and sisterhood. We meet great people often but only so of those people will have the same experiences as you. Those experiences created a bond. I am so grateful. 

I took on a second job and started working 7 days a week. I learned that it doesn't matter how much money you make. If you're not making memories you are not loving life.

Started  a class and completed. If you're one of those people who has a hard time completing anything you've started then understand why this is here. 

The loss of a great friend and great memories to hold of him. Loss is never easy but easy year we should to make memories with our loved ones. Those memories will help keep us whole when our hearts are in need.

One of my older sisters found love and married him. Just when I thought the family was cursed and marriage was impossible. (Blog of this soon to come! With pics of course!)

Learning how to coparent. Hey I'm still learning. That's really all I can say.

Overall it was a great year. 

Toodles 2014. It was a rollercoaster I'll never forget!