I remember never liking the scab on my wounds. I would pick and peel the scab hoping it would help heal faster. Granted the scab is there to prevent infection. Its there to help the wound heal. I remember wounds would itch around the edges. I would try to scratch around it trying my hardest to stay outside the wound. That never worked.
Physical and emotional wounds are the same. You have to give it time to heal. You can't pick at it, in hopes of change. I get it we all want what we want. Some of us are impatient. Hell I get that way too!
You have to let time do its duty. Have a little patience and ride your emotions out like an adult. I always tell my son to take his tire and have patience. Even as an adult we need to conscious of our emotions.
Scabs are there to protect the wound and prevent scarring.
Time is your scab. Make peace with it. Let your wounds heal. Time is actually on your side when it come to the healing process.
Make peace with yourself and trust the process.
