Making Space for the New

It's the second week of 2015. It's been such a busy week. I don't know about you but my Christmas tree is still up! I've finally taken off the lights and ornaments. If you haven't cleaned house well let this weekend be the time to get it done. Label your piles with donate and trash. This time remember to toss and donate these items. I have the tendency to just put stuff back because I'm either too busy or just too lazy. However, in 2015, I am choosing to NOT become a hoarder. 

Let's face it... We all have baggage. How we handle our baggage will determine space available for new experiences. Oh you thought I meant "clean house" in the literal sense? Well unless you have OCD, because... Well... Then that's another subject. 

You will only have one mental pile. Accept and let go. 

Goodbye fooled heart

I gave it all for love last year but nothing ever came from it. I found myself in an empty space giving. Don't get me wrong, Love is about giving. Everything I gave was returned but nothing grew from it. I realize why so many women are easily hurt. We focused on the feeling we wanted and not whole situation.

A man can make you feel like he loves you. He can hold your hand, tell you that you're beautiful and make you feel on top of the world. He can even tell you that he loves you back but you may not be what he wants. And we stick around ladies because the temporary cloud nine feeling feels good. That's great and all but what about reciprocation? It feels like he loves you back... But is that enough? No but we settle for being high in the clouds.

Here we are January 2, 2015. Two days into the new year. You have the option to keep settling or open your heart to something real. Remove yourself from your comfort zone. 

Open up to new experiences. The new year is the time to be ready for all that you've been hoping. 

Love is waiting but not while you're still doing the same old things. 

C'est la vie 2014

2014 is officially a memory. 

Happy New Year my friends! It's 2015! 10 years ago I had plan for my life to be different from now. You... Married, with a couple children. Visiting  2-3 counties a year. Showing my children life abroad. Let's just I have one handsome son and travel plans have just surfaced my horizon. 

For me 2014 was another year of learning to appreciate the little things in life. That's exactly what we should do in life, right? 

The started with a relationship and it all faded away by the end of the first quarter. The more we discussed our relationship, the more distant we became. 

I learned that sometimes people have issues within theirselves and tend to take it out on others.   Friends are friends no matter what but when people walk out of your life, let them go. As long as you know that you did your best to be a good friend. Nothing else matters.

Developed a close friendship and sisterhood. We meet great people often but only so of those people will have the same experiences as you. Those experiences created a bond. I am so grateful. 

I took on a second job and started working 7 days a week. I learned that it doesn't matter how much money you make. If you're not making memories you are not loving life.

Started  a class and completed. If you're one of those people who has a hard time completing anything you've started then understand why this is here. 

The loss of a great friend and great memories to hold of him. Loss is never easy but easy year we should to make memories with our loved ones. Those memories will help keep us whole when our hearts are in need.

One of my older sisters found love and married him. Just when I thought the family was cursed and marriage was impossible. (Blog of this soon to come! With pics of course!)

Learning how to coparent. Hey I'm still learning. That's really all I can say.

Overall it was a great year. 

Toodles 2014. It was a rollercoaster I'll never forget! 

RIP: Stephanie Moseley & Early Hayes

It breaks my heart about violent domestic situations. Dancer Stephanie Moseley, had her life take by her husband Earl Hayes. Stephanie was knows for "Hit The Floor" as well as her back up dancing for Pop stars Chris Brown and Britney Spears. Earl Hayes was the son of the late  Issac Hayes.
  The couple were found dead in their Los Angeles apartment. It was told that boxer ,Floyd Mayweather Jr, may have been on facetime with Hayes while he was going to confront his wife, Moseley, of cheating.

This is such a heartbreaking tragedy.

My condolences to the Moseley and Hayes family.

Wedding: Solange and Alan Ferguson

Congratulations to Solange and her long time beau Alan Ferguson. 

Solange & Alan's regal wedding were filled with shades of cream and white.   

I'm a huge fan of Solange and her style. Her wedding images are seriously #breakingtheinternet.  Sista girl have seriously made best wedding images of the decade! Sorry Kimye! 

Beyonce & Ms. Tina Knowlege beautifully placed along the side of the beautiful Solange.

Momma Tina... You better WERK HONEY!  This woman looks amazing!

Check out the back of this jumpsuit! #breaktheinternet

Solange has came to state her claim!  

The newlyweds yall!

Solange and her son grooving to "No Flex Zone" for the Mother Son dance.

LOVE LOVE LOVE these moments!

Beyonce, Jay-Z & Blue Ivy were there, of course!

The outfit changes!

Congratulations to you both! 

Just because...

Relationships are require work. 

Create wonderful memories. 

Remember No one is perfect.

Be vulnerable.

Be good to love because love will be good to you.

#loveandlight

#beyonce #jayz

 No matter what happens... 

you must support each other.

Does Size Matter?

I am totally convinced that are a plethora of great men out there that are single because they are packing an average or below average penis. Yes I said it! PENIS! Johnson! Schlong!  whatever you want to call it! It's all the same.

Some of us women want a Mandingo warrior prince! Someone who can be EVERYTHING and packing girth beyond the average man's beliefs.  Word on the street is that those Mandingo warriors are the jerk faces A-holes that make women feel like shit. I've seen women go crazy once they finally get the "big one". The talks of him reaching all the right "spots".  Truth is Mandingo is trying to get his numbers up. We're just a notch on his belt of coital pleasure.

Well ladies let me tell you that all of this can end! The moment you decide to give up being a size queen.  I know you're giving me that Nene Leaks looks right now. Let's be honest. There are good men out there that  know how to work their average size packing. 

There is a man out there that may not be everything you want... but trust me when I say that he will be everything that you NEED!

#thankmelater