New Home Buying! Gah!

When buying a new home you get all excited! Hoorays! Congrats! Good luck! EERRRR!?!
Good luck is right. 

You'll need all the luck in the work if you're bargain shopping.

Know your loan options. It is important to understand the loan so make sure you have the best option for you.

Taboo Talk: Size Queens

Truth is ... Lots of women are size queens until they find that one man that is well endowed, doesn't know how to use it, and realizes that its way overrated. 

Size doesn't matter. Well, maybe it does to some extend. A man needs some sort of size to please a woman. However a woman doesn't need a super sized Mandingo warrior to fall in love. 

I mean you fall in love with the character of a man... Not his penis size. So what exactly is the big deal?

Let me break it down for you. 

Women are emotional creatures. When we share our bodies man we open our soul. The gate of emotions will control our thoughts. We are then unable to think because our emotional state. Walking around thinking Life is so tricky.

Truth is, it's only as tricky as you make it.

Yikes! it's Valentine's: What to do!?!?

Welp, it is totally that time again. What every you chose to think about Valentine's day, just remember that its not going any where.  Its here for now so we just have to deal.



I found a couple sites that offers awesome suggestions for Valentine's day.

Hide little heart candies in your spouse’s shoes, coat, car, etc.  The woman who suggested this said that she’s been doing this for decades. “Now a couple of the grandkids help me with delight.”
My take on this... write thoughtful notes on cute little heart shaped paper. Put them in random places. Wallet, car, shoes, pants pocket, Jacket. The best feeling in the world is knowing how much someone thinks of you.

Make a book about why you love your spouse and why you are thankful for him/her.  The woman who sent this idea wrote, “He loved it! Said it was the best gift he has ever gotten.  And it helped me to focus on the things I love about my husband and not his shortcomings.

This is the sweetest and so thoughtful idea. 

If your love often has a sweet tooth, heart shape desserts, attached with a love notes.

Fix a special lunch. Always add something special. A photo of you along with reasons why you love them.

Be thoughtful, be simple but be loving.

Happy Valentine's Day Folks!

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Adieu 2015

So here we are. The last week of  the year 2015. Each year you can only hope to become a better version of yourself.  Checking off goals accomplished, enjoyed life a little more, create memories you hope to share, make new friends or just learn to be present in life. Even if you've made it through the year feeling stagnant, you should be planning to create some sort of forward movement. 

This year I've learned to not only take chances but accept the learning opportunities that may follow. Some call those mistakes. I prefer to call them opportunities for improvement. Let's try to keep things more positive here.  I've opened myself to love, opened an online stores, started new hobbies. I wont be going into detail about these but I can say I've had success and of course opened my eyes to opportunities for improvement. Through it all, I can say that I am grateful for where I am today. I am blessed to have made it through the year 2015, but I know that great things will happen. 

Dear 2015, 

Thank you for life, change and new possibilities. I am grateful that I was allowed to be in your presence. You've taught me things about myself to help guide me into someone better. For you I am ever so grateful.  Please put in a good word for me in 2016 and years go come. Here's to higher consciousness, living an abundant life, being prosperous and paying it forward.

- Me.

Tame the tongue

I have learned that saying hurtful  things to shut someone up will only make an argument worse. You may be the stronger (physically) person but emotionally it shows weakness. Walking away may not solve your problems but it's the best thing to do at the moment.
We shouldn't want to be the person who is right all the time. You never have to like or agree with everything said. We are human and make mistakes. We also have feeling. Whether you decide to play the tough roll or not.
With that being said... Apologizing is a start. Learning to accept your mistakes is another.
Never say anything hurtful in an argument because you are angry. You can lose important people in your life.
#lifeslesson

Remembering: Kisses

I remember when people talked about kissing. How long it happened or how soft and subtle...
If they were gentle and passionate.

Wet kisses
Dry kisses
Soft kisses
Neck kisses
Shoulder kisses
Collar bone kisses
Forehead kisses
Nose kisses
Sweet kisses

Kisses that end with a nibble.
Kisses that end with a nose rub.
(Eskimo kisses).

Stop and experience the kisses.

"Besarte es como ver las estrellas."🌟🌟🌟💫💫💫

A Letter to Love: Humbled & Grateful

I thought I knew you before.
I thought I knew all that you were about.

But this time around feels different.

I’m completely humbled by your presence.

You've been keeping me grounded.

The peace you bring is assuring of your presence.  

You’ve caught me at a point where I felt I was undeserving.
You've lift me up and wrapping me in your warm embrace.

Love you have seriously showed up and made me stronger.

Each day I just keep getting better.
Each day you just keep proving to be something beyond my belief.

Your strength, your heart and selflessness keeps me grateful of your existence.

I thought I knew you before. I really thought I knew it all. 

I was even angry because I believed those impostors to be you.

Today I know there is nothing greater than you.

Love, thank you for loving me like you do.

Me.