Are you holding on to the past? I know we are only human but I believe that we deserve to be happy. We tend to hold on to things, situations and relationships. Wouldn’t you let go if you knew that you had to let go of something because in order to received something better? But because we don’t know we allow fear to play a big role in our decisions.
We hold on possession, heirlooms, pictures and all those things that put us in the special place. This is great as long as you don’t visit that special place too often. You don’t want this to become a habit (I’ve totally been there). I know we can be creatures of habit but it doesn’t have to be that way. Keep these special items in safe places. I tend to revisit these things when I’m spring cleaning or maybe I’ve just found them on accident.
Are your past or current situations blocking you from receiving your blessings? We go through changes because this is how we are molded. Past and current situations are what make us the person we are today. Don’t be afraid to voice your opinion and thoughts. Don’t hold on but learn from these situations. The lesson that you learn will help determine how to move on from your situation.
Are you holding on by a string with your relationship? Are you constantly asking yourself why and how? Have you just become comfortable with your situation? You may feel defeated or like you have no other place where you want to share your feelings. This is totally an unhealthy situation. You are created a path of unhappiness. If you’ve tried all that you can to keep your relationship anew you have to look at the pros and cons. Not just for you but for your partner too. Relationship are a too way street. Sometimes we hold on because we don’t want to hurt the other person. I think it’s a little too late to think this way because you both are already suffering. We don't realize that we're holding on for the wrong reasons. At this pont it's not love anymore. It's just comfortable and easy.
Learn that its okay to let go. Let go. Learn to love freely. Learn to give love freely. Self love respect and honor. When you love yourself everything else will fall into place.
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