Lovers or Friends/ Lovers & Friends? To lots guys the perfect relationship is sexual. To lots of women it not only about sex but its emotional. In my opinion this “homie-lover-friend” situation can work. What I can’t tell you is the length of time it can work. That part is actually up to you. Just always remember why you’ve decided this route. Its perfect when you need companionship but not ready to put in all the effort of a relationship. You get all the benefits of a relationship, minus the emotional part, family gatherings, and of course the complications. It’s a mutual understanding between 2 adults. There must be some rules and regulations. Of course you must be upfront and be willing to communicate. Consider a time frame. I doubt you’d want to have this type of relationship forever. Have a plan if one person becomes emotionally involved AND know how much you can handle emotionally. We all have limits so get to know yours.
This may sound like perfection but Let’s keep it real though, every relationship has its ups & downs.
Other names: Cutty buddy, cut buddy, sex partner, homie lover friend, friends with benefits.
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