It's Not

Love is not

• Its not based on your superficial wants. 
• It not based on your friends thoughts.
• Not to tell the world that you have it but tell the well how you are keeping it.
• No one cares who is "wearing the pants" in your relationship. 
• What matters is that you have it and that gives hope to others in search of it.

Word of the Day: BAE

For all of those who use the word BAE or  #bae

Lets visit Urban dictionary's meanings:

Acronyn: B.A.E.

                Before Anyone Else


Well here is translation for you!

Danish for POOP!

New ways to use Bae?

• You aint BAE!
• This is some bullbae!
• Did you go bae today?
• You aint bae!
• you little bae!

I can go on... but you get the point! 

Quote of the Day from J.A. Konrath

“If you can quit, quit. If you can't quit, stop complaining - this is what you chose.” 
― J.A. Konrath

This quote may hit you hard but sometimes we need a hard hit. Of reality that is. In life we have choices. We can chose good or bad. Let's face it. NO one is perfect nor will we ever be perfect. We were born into this no so perfect world to learn from our mistakes and make better choices. The quote is saying to stop dwelling on your mistakes. Make peace with your past and move forward. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter who did what or how they did it. Its how you chose to handle it.

Peace & Love

In a Situationship?

I cause a glimpse of a meme that hit home for me. Let's face it! These memes can be brutally honest. Half the time we are not looking for the truth but looking for our fantasy to become the truth. So the meme says

 "People arent even dating anymore, just talking, catching feelings, sleeping together and end up in situationships" 

One might ask "what is a situationship"? Well that's what the Urban Dictionary is for!


Situationships: any problematic relationship characterized by one or more unresolved, interpersonal conflicts. usually confused with dating.

It's time you ended the situationship, dumped his sorry ass and found a guy who you're actually happy to be around.

I'm sure you've had at least one experience like this at some point in your life. It seems as though, no one wants to define their situation anymore. People no one feels as though a title means anything. Who made up these rules? Just when you thought that being old fashioned was too difficult... well during this day and age it's even more difficult. All of you young people only want to have sex until you find perfect sex with someone you think maybe the one. The older you get the more you realize that you've been doing it all wrong. The best sex is with someone you've been emotionally, mentally and spiritually attached. If not you may as well paid for a prostitute!  Sex was meant to be the glue in your marriage. It create a spiritual bond between two people. When these two people have no connection then you are just hanging. 

Let's face it. If you're just hanging and you will be left just hanging. You know what happens when you hang from nothing? You end up hurt.

Quality vs Quantity, of time.

I used to think it was cute to speak to someone every morning. Who doesn't want to be thought of every morning. Don't get me wrong now. There could be butterflies in the air and everything could be wonderful, but then I realized driving is my moment of peace before I get to hell. Work that is.
 I don't know about you but I need that 30 minutes for myself.  If I don't have my fix of praise & worship music I begin to get annoyed with the people who call me so damn early in the morning. Is that wrong?
Its the moment you realized that it's about the quality about the time spent with someone... Not the quantity of time spent talking. I can talk a persons ear off. 

If we make every moment count then who needs small talk?
If we made the most of the time spent then we wouldn't be rushing to speak to each other every minute possible.

Poetry

It replays in my mind
Each time more intense
Each time more passionate
Each time more fulfilled
Each time I crave...
Every second
Every moment
As if it’s the first time.

Happy New Year! 2014 is here!

Happy New Year!


I know normally you're planning your new years resolutions, wedding planning, vacation planning or maybe even still trying to catch up on current goals. What ever that maybe I wish you the most prosperous new year of all. May you receive an abundance of love, peace and joy.