Healing: Its a process

I remember never liking the scab on my wounds. I would pick and peel the scab hoping it would help heal faster. Granted the scab is there to prevent infection. Its there to help the wound heal. I remember wounds would itch around the edges. I would try to scratch around it trying my hardest to stay outside the wound. That never worked.

Physical and emotional wounds are the same. You have to give it time to heal. You can't pick at it, in hopes of change. I get it we all want what we want. Some of us are impatient.  Hell I get that way too!

You have to let time do its duty. Have a little patience and ride your emotions out like an adult. I always tell my son to take his tire and have patience. Even as an adult we need to conscious of our emotions.

Scabs are there to protect the wound and prevent scarring.

Time is your scab. Make peace with it. Let your wounds heal. Time is actually on your side when it come to the healing process.

Make peace with yourself and trust the process.

‪#‎loveandlight‬

Dear love: I'm sorry

Dear love,

Each day without you makes me miss you more. I'm grateful for our quick meet ups but I think I'm ready to keep you. I really hope you're ready to keep me too. I know that last time you came into my life, I wasn't ready. You really showed me what I missing when you left. Oh Love you've taught me a lesson. I know how much you deserve to be appreciated.

You showed me that I needed to love me first. Without self love I wouldn't not be able to keep up your needs.

Each encounter I've had with you taught me how to be a better person. My love I am unselfish for you. I am floating each moment I bask in your presence.

So much I'd give just to see you again.
Just to feel you again.
To show you how you've helped me for the better

Oh love... let me be your fool.

If you please... give me
one more chance...

to LOVE.

My thoughts: I see said the blind.

I miss text messages that make me smile.

Something that says I'm thinking of you. 

I remember waking up to thoughtful sentiments in my inbox.

Every morning.

Good morning beautiful 

Good morning gorgeous 

Good morning Ms. wonderful 

Have a wonderful day my love

Jut random thoughtful sentiments that warmed my heart.

I mean how hard can it be to take some time out of your day to speak to the people you love? Specially when you don't see them every day. Maybe it's just me?

Maybe I'm the type that need occasionally terms of endearment. 

Why do we hold back on those we love but...

It's like we go where we are needed but not where we are cherished.

Break the chain. Love the people who love you back. Stop chasing after those who run. 

Actions vs. Intentions

Sometimes we have a desire for things were arent ready for. I want lots of things. We all do. Truth is you need to be in tuned with yourself to understand. You must pay attention to your actions. Are you doing exactly what you say you will do? If  not, do you understand your actions? 

If you're saying one thing and doing another, acknowledge it. We're not perfect yanno.

It's part of being credible.

Situationship: Hanging on

I've realized that we are situationships because we are comfortable.

 Face it... its hard enough to connect with someone. No one want to go through meeting someone new. Learning their issues and deciding if you really want to deal with them. The honey moon phase will make you rush into what may seem like a good thing. 

Sometimes its only good when we're together. 

I've been strung along before. I mean I've been in love before... with someone that didn't love me as much. In fact his heart belong to someone else.   Together it felt great. Although I couldn't fill his void. He was everything... he listen, he cared, he cooked and most importantly he made time. Then I realized that time was only at night. Not to say every night was about sex (that was not the case). It was a situation where we made time to give each other affection when we both were in need. There was no label... just love.

These moments are special.. but eventually you need more about of a situation. 

Thank God for enlightenment. 

Eventually we have to let go. For sanity's sake.

As a person. You deserved to be loved. Especially from those you love. It should be unconditional. It is meant to be reciprocated.

Which is why you shouldn't lead people into thinking that you may consider being with them.
True unconditional love is about making sure your loved ones are happy. Even if its not with you. 
Its not fair to them because of your selfishness.

Sex: Are you ready?

Sex changes the dynamics of a relationship. If you move too fast into sex then it can extent the honey moon phase. Sex is emotional. You really need to know if you're ready to share your body with someone. Its too often that people seek sex to replace void in their life.
Let's face it... it makes us feel good. Well duh! It helps our bodies produce endorphins. Which can also be produce by exercising. I'ts no wonder why active people are always happy. #teamfit is a way to happiness.

Think twice about sexual intercourse. Make sure you're both ready.

Valentine's Day: Thoughts

Valentine's day coming up and I know y'all plan on getting kinky...

So lets keep it smiple.

Ladies pay attention to your man!
Fellas pay attention to your woman!

Easy right? 

Married people don't wait until valentines day!
You married the love of your life. Lots of people wait all their life to do that!