I've realized that we are situationships because we are comfortable.
Face it... its hard enough to connect with someone. No one want to go through meeting someone new. Learning their issues and deciding if you really want to deal with them. The honey moon phase will make you rush into what may seem like a good thing.
Sometimes its only good when we're together.
I've been strung along before. I mean I've been in love before... with someone that didn't love me as much. In fact his heart belong to someone else. Together it felt great. Although I couldn't fill his void. He was everything... he listen, he cared, he cooked and most importantly he made time. Then I realized that time was only at night. Not to say every night was about sex (that was not the case). It was a situation where we made time to give each other affection when we both were in need. There was no label... just love.
These moments are special.. but eventually you need more about of a situation.
Thank God for enlightenment.
Eventually we have to let go. For sanity's sake.
As a person. You deserved to be loved. Especially from those you love. It should be unconditional. It is meant to be reciprocated.
Which is why you shouldn't lead people into thinking that you may consider being with them.
True unconditional love is about making sure your loved ones are happy. Even if its not with you.
Its not fair to them because of your selfishness.
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