Thinking out loud

Love is everything. Sounds so cliche right? We fall over everyone else ideal situation, that we never consider our own.

Like the song says "who wants that perfect love story anyway. Cliche Cliche cliche"

Honestly I just want what is real. Something that works for me...

Home buying

Are you interested in buying a home? Can I tell you that I feel as though I've been signing my life away? There are so many document and so many things to read.

Let's face it. We all want our part of the " American Dream". That opportunity  to own property! Some thing appreciates in value. Well my time has started. Can I tell you how grateful and humble I am. I know its not easy to save money.

What to know? Well your realtor is not your banker. Your realtor does not approve your loan. They are however are knowledgeable of current mortgage rates and some basic information. Sometimes they work with specific backs because of past client relationships. Face it... once you've worked with a person its so much easier to to continue that business relationship.

Once you've received your approval letter from the bankers, the realtor will begin the process to you find your home. Sounds so excited! If you have a good budget then you'd easily find a home. I mean you might have really good options. I mean a good location, nice size lot, home that meets or exceeds your needs maybe with some extra goodies like pool and Jacuzzi. It could be whatever your heart desires.

If your budget is low, you may have some issues.  Cheaper homes go fast for many reasons. Some people pay cash just to get into a home. Some people want to decide how to update the house. Others want to make money, so you have people who invest money to flip homes. It really just depends.

Either way there is so much to know and learn during this process. You can make an offer and the offer just wont get accepted.  Its not always what you expect.  That process can happen hundreds of times.

Escrow is where the real fun happens.... that's for the next blog!

New Home Buying! Gah!

When buying a new home you get all excited! Hoorays! Congrats! Good luck! EERRRR!?!
Good luck is right. 

You'll need all the luck in the work if you're bargain shopping.

Know your loan options. It is important to understand the loan so make sure you have the best option for you.

Taboo Talk: Size Queens

Truth is ... Lots of women are size queens until they find that one man that is well endowed, doesn't know how to use it, and realizes that its way overrated. 

Size doesn't matter. Well, maybe it does to some extend. A man needs some sort of size to please a woman. However a woman doesn't need a super sized Mandingo warrior to fall in love. 

I mean you fall in love with the character of a man... Not his penis size. So what exactly is the big deal?

Let me break it down for you. 

Women are emotional creatures. When we share our bodies man we open our soul. The gate of emotions will control our thoughts. We are then unable to think because our emotional state. Walking around thinking Life is so tricky.

Truth is, it's only as tricky as you make it.

Yikes! it's Valentine's: What to do!?!?

Welp, it is totally that time again. What every you chose to think about Valentine's day, just remember that its not going any where.  Its here for now so we just have to deal.



I found a couple sites that offers awesome suggestions for Valentine's day.

Hide little heart candies in your spouse’s shoes, coat, car, etc.  The woman who suggested this said that she’s been doing this for decades. “Now a couple of the grandkids help me with delight.”
My take on this... write thoughtful notes on cute little heart shaped paper. Put them in random places. Wallet, car, shoes, pants pocket, Jacket. The best feeling in the world is knowing how much someone thinks of you.

Make a book about why you love your spouse and why you are thankful for him/her.  The woman who sent this idea wrote, “He loved it! Said it was the best gift he has ever gotten.  And it helped me to focus on the things I love about my husband and not his shortcomings.

This is the sweetest and so thoughtful idea. 

If your love often has a sweet tooth, heart shape desserts, attached with a love notes.

Fix a special lunch. Always add something special. A photo of you along with reasons why you love them.

Be thoughtful, be simple but be loving.

Happy Valentine's Day Folks!

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Adieu 2015

So here we are. The last week of  the year 2015. Each year you can only hope to become a better version of yourself.  Checking off goals accomplished, enjoyed life a little more, create memories you hope to share, make new friends or just learn to be present in life. Even if you've made it through the year feeling stagnant, you should be planning to create some sort of forward movement. 

This year I've learned to not only take chances but accept the learning opportunities that may follow. Some call those mistakes. I prefer to call them opportunities for improvement. Let's try to keep things more positive here.  I've opened myself to love, opened an online stores, started new hobbies. I wont be going into detail about these but I can say I've had success and of course opened my eyes to opportunities for improvement. Through it all, I can say that I am grateful for where I am today. I am blessed to have made it through the year 2015, but I know that great things will happen. 

Dear 2015, 

Thank you for life, change and new possibilities. I am grateful that I was allowed to be in your presence. You've taught me things about myself to help guide me into someone better. For you I am ever so grateful.  Please put in a good word for me in 2016 and years go come. Here's to higher consciousness, living an abundant life, being prosperous and paying it forward.

- Me.

Tame the tongue

I have learned that saying hurtful  things to shut someone up will only make an argument worse. You may be the stronger (physically) person but emotionally it shows weakness. Walking away may not solve your problems but it's the best thing to do at the moment.
We shouldn't want to be the person who is right all the time. You never have to like or agree with everything said. We are human and make mistakes. We also have feeling. Whether you decide to play the tough roll or not.
With that being said... Apologizing is a start. Learning to accept your mistakes is another.
Never say anything hurtful in an argument because you are angry. You can lose important people in your life.
#lifeslesson