Letting Go: Not so hard

Soon as you let go of the one that's not trying to be kept by you...

You will see the one that's been trying to keep you. 

Trust I understand that we want what we can't have. Don't let your your mind confuse your heart into wanting something that isn't right for you. You can say Mel you don't get it. We have a connection. This time it's different. Let Mel tell you that I've been there and I've done that. Love is letting them go. LET GO! No matter how much it hurts you. When you love yourself it don't hurt as much as you think. You can say Mel but I love myself! I know you not saying I have low self esteem. What I'm saying is, when you love yourself so much, the way that God loves you, you trust the plan that he has for you. You don't hold on to people because you're feeling as though you need them in your life. 

Self love

The root of a relationship starts with SELF. You must love yourself unconditionally before you can love someone else. How can you love someone if you are not sure how to love yourself, flaws and all? Just think about it. You must learn to love unselfishly. You can’t love someone and expect them to love you back. Love with out a limit. Keep giving love even if you feel as though you don’t received enough back. The truth is that love is always reciprocated. Even if its not how you expect to received it back. Love unconditionally. Let me say this louder for you… LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY! No matter what your expectation of a person learn to be happy for them and support. Its so much easier to teach others how to love you when already know what to do. And when you love yourself first, you love others freely. When self love becomes a habit, you glow. You then begin to understand true self worth and how to love unconditionally.

We all want to be loved in one way or another so love freely and unselfishly. Continuously share some form of affection and show someone you care.

“1Corithians 13:4-8
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away”