See the Beauty

Stop to see all the beauty in life. I've realized that perfection is like beauty. In the eye of the beholder. We've all set our own standards. Some of us have met or exceeded our expectations and others are still working towards the goal. Someone of us have learned from our mistakes while others struggle to comprehend.
If we fail to learn from our mistakes then we fail to see the all beauty in life.

This morning I ask that you see beauty in everything...
Uneven pavement, nature, friends, family and love.

Let it go!

Releasing all that hinders your growth is important. To often we allow negative emotions to control our actions. Nothing positive ever came from holding on to hurt. We have to forgive and let go. Forgiveness is when you accept a situation and not let it control you.

It's not about being the bigger person but being the person in control of their happiness.

Today choose happiness!

Wake Up Call

Sometimes you gotta wake up. Pay attention to those that give you their time. 

I hear women say it all the time. This guy is doing too much. It's too soon. He might be just like the rest. There is no fear in love.

There is no time frame for love.
If man is giving his time, patience, understanding and will... Give him a chance or let him go.

Just stop giving your night time to man that won't enjoy your day time.

The Sprint Network

Dear sprint

I know that I can't be the only unhappy customer you have. In December of 2014 I decided to get my child a phone for Christmas. I decided to go with sprint because they phone was free. The gentleman in the sprint store was rude. That should have been the moment I realized that I should have walked away. That's not my main issue.

I've have Sprint service for about 7 months and can I tell you that I've called 4 times to make changes on a bill that increases in surcharges every time! 

Why do I have to wait until the end of billing cycle to make changes?

That's one question.

Next question is why is there a surcharge for a data plan when I'm already paying for unlimited talk, text, data? 

When has it become ok to accept these surcharges ... I'm

Canceling my service. 

Sprint you have completely pissed me off. I have had the worst experience in the last 7 months.

Thanks for being a corporate thief! 

Taking Chances

Hello there!

I wanted to tell you about last night's conversation with a friend of mine. We were discussing wants and needs when it comes to relationships/dating. As a frustrated woman, who is looking for a potential husband in the dating world, I've realized a few things.

1. We don't always make our intentions clear 
2. Not always being clear about what we are looking for in another person
3. Not cutting ties before we've fallen

Easier said than done. Trust me I know it. I've always found it amusing how the simplest things seem so hard to do. I get that you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but you will be respected more for the truth. 

Make your intentions clear. Let's face it. Going with the flow feels good. Sometime people just want to have fun. Having fun can create expectations. Don't look at me sideways now. We (women) get all excited over a few dates assuming the man is ready to propose his life way. It's not always like that. 

What happens if this man isn't exactly what you were looking for in the beginning? That means you weren't clear to yourself about the type of person you are looking for... This creates tension. You've already assumed he was it. You know.. "The one". 

When you finally wake up and realize that he isn't the "the one" don't be afraid to let it go... The moment you realize that some is all wrong for you is the very moment things go bad. You stop caring, start making other plans, lack if consideration. ... Trust I can go on. 

Do yourself a favor. Know what you want. Make it clear. Be vulnerable. Take some chances. 

Open mind

The same defense mechanism we use to protect our ourselves could be the same reason we are hurt.

Step outside of your comfort zone. 

Be open and free to all that comes your way. 

Be vulnerable. 

A letter to love: IMY

Dear love,

After all these years I still love you the same. To some extent I'd say I'm waiting for you to finally reciprocate. I am freely open to you and all the possibilities.

You've showed me so many things about myself that I needed to know.

Love I need you to want me back. I miss that feeling I have when you play in my hair. I miss the heat that radiates from your body. Laying my head on your chest as I listen to your heartbeat.

Love I remember how you'd gaze into my eye and tell me how beautiful I am. I miss the feeling that takes over me with each embrace.

Love you are the truth. I'm grateful for the times you've come into my life.

I'm ready for you to stay.

Signed

My heart

Ariana Chiquita opps Grande

What is the world is going on with Ariana Grande these days? I really like ... but the nonsense must stop!

How can you hate Americans and live in their country? That's like a pornstar that hates porn.
Ariana I apologize for all the people that spat in your food, but dont spit in mine!

I dont want your germs! get your life together. Get out of the lime light if you dont want to be a role mode.

The apology was great but actions speak louder than words

signed,
concerned about the youth

Taking your time

I was told that I don't give guys a chance. What people don't understand is that I'm not going to jump into a situation with someone who is thinking about it. You must actually get to know someone before you can decide if you want to be with them. You don't just jump and do it.  Get to know someone with an open heart. Be vulnerable. Like they say... easy come easy go. By the time a person truly lets their guard down, fire their representative and show their true self, you're ready to let go. Had you given the time needed to grow you'd be holding on. Even after the bad time. You would sweat the small things but you'd be too busy floating with what is more important.

Give people time. Get to know someone before you make your decision. 

Be open & willing, make memories, enjoy the the most precious part of life. 

July!

Happy First day of the second half of the year!  Can I say that this year has been one hell of a roller coaster. I've learned quite a few things.

I've learned to open up and do things out of my comfort zone. Let me tell you now that there was nothing easy about it. Trust me when I say that I fought it at first...

I've learned to think before I act. This is an uneasy task when for someone that just goes with the flow. As a responsible adult we're supposed to make better choices in life. Well that's my goal. Better choices.


Let's just say that I'm grateful for it all.


#loveandlight